Once again my friend Gina has the best links. :)
This is a great article.

Excerpt: The hard part for many of us may be reining in our “secret society” fantasy and not looking down our noses at the straights. We can still feel superior to the frumpy heteros on Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, but we also have to be OK with the fact that for many of us, life resembles Friends, Everwood, or even Average Joe more than it does Queer as Folk.